The idea of a national conference for homicide survivors has been bubbling inside me for a while. It finally took hold after I attended the Innocence Network Conference in April— a powerful annual gathering of people wrongfully convicted, their families, advocates, and organizations working for justice. I watched how their shared experience created community, momentum, and impact. And I thought: If they can do this for the wrongfully convicted, why not us?
Why not a national conference for homicide survivors?
I’m talking about those of us who’ve lived through the violent loss of someone we love — and the grassroots groups that have stepped up to support us. What if we had a space to gather, grieve, learn, collaborate, and push for change we desperately need? What if we weren’t so scattered, working in isolation, but instead had a way to share tools, strategies, and strength?
This isn’t a fully formed plan — it’s the start of a conversation. I’m not looking to lead alone. I have a handful of people willing to help. I am looking to connect with sponsors, advocates and professionals in the field related to homicide to help shape the future of this unique and overlooked gathering.
So I’m asking:
What would you want from a national conference for homicide survivors?
What would make it worth your time, your travel, your trust?
What concerns do you have?
What would success look like to you
Please share your thoughts. Ask questions. Offer suggestions. Tell me if this sparks something in you, too.
You can reach me directly at aftermath.of.homicide@gmail.com. I’d truly love to hear from you.
Because maybe — just maybe — it’s time we come together in a new way.
