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Finding Help for Grief Is Easier Than You Think!
When we are grieving, the need for support can feel urgent and overwhelming. Friends and family may try, but sometimes they don’t know what to

What’s Up With the Chronic Anger After Trauma?
When trauma crashes into anyone’s life, one of the most visible and misunderstood reactions is chronic, seething anger—especially in the early stages of the ordeal.

National Dog Month – Let’s Honor our Four-Legged Allies
August is National Dog Month—a time to celebrate the deep, enduring bond between humans and dogs. But for many of us, that celebration doesn’t begin

What Does the Kohberger Case Reveal About Society, and the Justice System?
Like many, I’ve followed the tragic case of the four University of Idaho students murdered in their off-campus home in 2022. And like many homicide

Is Feeling Lost in Grief the First Step to Being Found?
I woke up this morning in my tent, tucked into the quiet edge of my acreage, with only the whisper of cedar trees and the

The Quiet Exit: Why Homicide Survivors Withdraw (and Why Community Matters So Much)
When someone we love is taken by homicide, our world doesn’t just fracture—it implodes. The aftermath is marked by disbelief, rage, guilt, and a relentless

An Open Letter to Kind Friends, Neighbors and Coworkers: What Helps After Homicide
Dear friends, We know it’s hard to know what to say to us. None of us were prepared for this tragedy. When news spreads that

How Family Genotyping is Solving Murders (and Raising Ethical Questions)
In recent years, a quiet revolution in crime-solving has been unfolding—not in police labs or courtrooms, but in the world of consumer genetics. The same

Why Homicide is Never Just One Tragedy: The Layering Effect
When someone is murdered, the headlines focus on the who, what, when, where, and hunt for a why. News coverage may describe the crime scene,

Detroit’s Bold New Effort to ID Unsolved Murder Victims: Unearthing the Forgotten
On a recent episode of Eye on America, CBS News spotlighted a groundbreaking initiative out of Detroit — one that may well forever change how

What Homicide Survivors Wish You Knew: Their Top Ten Frustrations
There are common refrains of what annoys homicide survivors. They’re shared when it feels safe to do so. Drawing from my podcast, academic research, casual

When Police Get It Wrong Twice: Dr. Anita Fowler’s Tragedy
When someone you love disappears, you expect fear. But what you don’t expect is silence. You don’t expect that they are reluctant to take a

The Mother Who Challenged Police and the Cartel to Solve Her Daughter’s Murder: Miriam Rodriguez
When someone you love is murdered, the world fractures. And to add to the misery, in some parts of the world, the very systems put

The Garden That Grief Built
What a shovel taught me about surviving loss I didn’t set out to build a grief garden – bit it grew anyway. When people think

Jurors As Collateral Victims in Homicide Trials
When we think of those most deeply impacted by homicide, we think of the family and friends of the victim. We sometimes also consider responders

Midnight Musings of Homicide Survivors
Long after the pasta dishes are returned and the media trucks leave, long after the memorial service or vigil, a strange quiet settles in. The

Why a National Gathering of Homicide Survivors is Long Overdue
When people think about groups needing support and visibility, homicide survivors are rarely the first to come to mind. We are a quiet group—not by

Unexpected Strengths Murder Survivors Discover
When someone survives the aftermath of homicide, people expect devastation—and they’re not wrong. There’s anguish. Sleeplessness. Rage. Numbness. The kind of grief that changes your
